rob and amber -I love it
2005-05-25
Okay, reality girls, we have a new show. tommy hilfiger is starting a designers show. i used to love rich girls about his daughter allie and her friend. anyone see this show? it was on MTV. i know, i need serious help. lol.
anyways, do any of you just worry and worry about what people think? i tend to but i really am trying to work on NOT doing it. it is wearing me the heck out. I spend so much time wondering if someone is mad, or did i do something to hurt someone, blah blah blah makes me want to puke how i act. I do what i can and try to not hurt people. i am a very people pleasing type person, and if i cant please you, you may have a problem. i wear my emotions on my sleeve and some people just harbor such bitterness and ugliness. anyway, i know a lot of you do this too and i was wondering if you have any tips to help me chill out, besides me just getting worn out with people and saying F it!!!
posted by gina at 4:41 AM Permalink
11 Comments:
I figure if someone gets really upset by something I say, then either they don't know me, or they are the one that is being too sensitive. I tend to say stupid things that upset people all the time. Most people who know me kinda blow it off, b/c they know I'm not a mean person intentionally. Sometimes, though, I go too far and don't realize it. I figure if someone doesn't talk to me for a while, then I will ask them if I did something to upset them, or if they act differently. I don't think that helped at all, but...oh well. I know, for me personally, I just try to realize that everyone thinks differently, and I can't make them all agree with me. I'm not going to let their differences of opinion bother how I think, though, or hurt my feelings...especially if it's not aimed at me...still rambling...I'll go now.
6:12 AM
I know how you feel. I have a bit of people pleaser in me too. My advice would be to hang around Christi more. I give her a lot of the credit for helping me not be shy anymore.
6:38 AM
Uhhh, what! Yeah, Gina, disregard Julia's last comment...if you hang around with me too much, your underrated side might come out! I just ruined Julia!
7:07 AM
i doubt you ruined julia, silly girl. you girls are great friends. i love it. i have a few of those myself. :)
i just dont get unforgiveness. it irritates me to no end. lol.
5:11 PM
OH MY GOSH, I can't believe how much we are alike. I am the same way. For example, If someone doesn't come in and comment on my blog for a couple of days I think they hate me. Is that bad or what. I am so messed up. I am always thinking I upset someone. I hate feeling like this. Ciao girl.
12:28 AM
LOL curly. i've never thought of the commenting on my blog thing, but now that you mention it... j/k!!
gina <-- who will check your blog often. i dont want you thinking i hate you or anything :) xox
12:39 AM
OH my, no I don't care about what other people think. Well sometimes because the other day some man took a picture of me, and I was all freaked out that I might see my self on the Glamour don't page. LOL!!
But really I am way to occupied with what I think of myself. I am always trying to be the best I can and I seem to always fall short. Then I beat myself up! So I guess I just don't have time to worry about others. I am what I am.
5:17 PM
thats a good way to think about it sara. thanks!
10:11 PM
Gi - I was hooked on Rich Girls too! I'm going to watch the designer show!
I use to worry about what people thought, but I realized you cant please everyone!
Your such an easy going person Gina, life is too short to spend time wondering if someone is mad at you or if you said something wrong... blah, blah, blah... Again, you cant please everyone!
2:21 AM
And you know what else? You are so perfect the way you are! Not to be cheezy but you are a beautiful girl inside and out, you have an awesome relationship with God, your husband, your children and your friends. You are what a lot of people strive to be (including me) You have it all imo!
P.S..I noticed a lot of typos in my last post.And I had a thought.. "I hope no body thinks I'm a dumb blonde!"<~~that was serious! lol see we all do it a little.
3:09 AM
OMG someone who actually watched Rich Girls too. All my friends though I was a total nerd watchin a show about Tommy Hilfiger's rich daughters.
You site is really cool. Hit myne up when you get a chance
4:18 PM
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